Self-confidence is important
For example, she may be too shy to climax - because she thinks her boyfriend is physically excluded from her. It wasn't true, but in her heart she couldn't shake the feeling. This problem can even lead to low libido, which can frustrate the husband and even lead to arguments or infidelity. The best thing to do is to help the woman build her self-esteem so she can feel good about her body. Helping her change her feelings will improve a couple's love life and rekindle the flame of romance.
While you might think it just takes a man to douse her with praise and encouragement - and it does - it requires more than that. The problem is that even if a partner encourages a big girl to have sex without fear, she may still be embarrassed. She may ask if she looks fat. What should this guy say?
Extra help your partner can provide
Reassurance may be the first answer. Maybe you want to say, "honey, of course you don't look chubby" But that was not necessarily what she wanted to hear. Some psychologists say that answering such a "loaded question" with another question is probably the best answer. This challenges her thinking and the woman's self-loathing. It's also a good idea to lead the conversation so that the man can focus on her strengths and avoid drawing her self-conscious attention. There is also a special need to pay attention to the words used by a partner, which may include "humiliating fat words" or even sentences that suggest a partner is not feeling well about themselves.
It's not always easy, but a mature and patient man can help a big beauty love her body and develop more confidence. It's not about working with her based on her time frame and comfort level. A sexy and appreciative woman will love you.